Yesterday a person said "you haven’t changed either"..and it got me thinking that maybe it’s a pretense of acting like the person I was 3 years ago or maybe 5 cuz that is how the person knows me. I have changed and things have changed too, I lead a different life now, and so does that person. How can it be possibly the same then?

Not accepting it is a separate thing altogether but believing your behavior to be reality that you actually get confused as to what the truth is..is weird. Its like that novel in English 3rd year in ‘The Balcony’ where mirror portray your wana-be-reality to such a great extent That role-playing becomes more real than reality itself.

I think the basic thing is that you remain a good person and that remains constant.